its frustrating, when you pride yourself on only acting on anger that is completely valid, to find yourself misled into an anger that is based on nothing. i like to think that i pick and choose my battles, and sometimes, people blow things so out of proportion, and make situations seem so much worse than they actually are, in a way that is so believable, that i find myself making a situation worse by acting on unfounded anger. i really really hate it when that happens. its a wasted ton of emotion, and makes me feel foolish, and frustrated with the person who misled me, and with myself. it just plain sucks.